Who’s poly?
Who am I? An interesting question you might ask. I’ve not suddenly developed amnesia although dementia may be imminent as I’m about to turn 40! Inevitably with milestone birthdays comes and element of navel...
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by PogoStick · Published November 6, 2013 · Last modified December 2, 2013
Who am I? An interesting question you might ask. I’ve not suddenly developed amnesia although dementia may be imminent as I’m about to turn 40! Inevitably with milestone birthdays comes and element of navel...
couples / Dating / paraphilia / relationships / Sex / swingers
by PogoStick · Published November 3, 2013 · Last modified December 2, 2013
More power to those who can sustain a lifelong monogamous relationship, they are blessed. In practice the rest of us have to stop expecting to have permanent relationships, find the love of our life,...
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by PogoStick · Published November 2, 2013 · Last modified December 6, 2013
Ok so it’s been less than a week since it all happened. I’ve so far been through the stages of denial, Maybe she’ll come back, if I tell her how I feel she’ll see...
So I’m lying here amongst the broken glass, bleeding from the heart looking back at the remains of my relationship. One minute I was cruising along, the wind in my hair, the sunshine of...
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by PogoStick · Published October 22, 2013 · Last modified December 2, 2013
During my ‘research’ for www.youonlywetter.co.uk I’ve been following a variety of people on twitter. Starting off with #tags with words such as fetish or bdsm I have discovered a much broader world than I...
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by PogoStick · Published September 29, 2013 · Last modified December 20, 2013
Whilst sitting poolside in our holiday recently, she picked up a book from the book exchange. She had been reading erotica all holiday and had run out so picked up one that somebody had...
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by PogoStick · Published July 13, 2013
Ok further to my earlier post I’ve been digging around. I saw some information on hypnotism and wondered if this might help. We’ve all seen Derren Brown and how powerful the mind can be...
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by PogoStick · Published July 13, 2013 · Last modified February 1, 2014
I have searched the internet for advice but there seems to be none. I also suffer from cold testicles, do you think that this may have something to do with the problem? I know the expression; “numb-nuts!” but I really have them! I dont know if this is related or not. I have no problems achieving orgasm on my own, just would like to do this inside my partner.
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by PogoStick · Published July 12, 2013 · Last modified November 15, 2013
We’ve talked before about ‘rape’ scenarios and as a couple we have dabbled a few times. It’s up to you to decide if you think it’s right or wrong, we’re consenting adults, it’s role...
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by PogoStick · Published July 3, 2013 · Last modified September 27, 2014
Looks like I forgot to post this yesterday! Funny how a mood can change in 24 hours this is how we we’re feeling yesterday Rough…… Busy day in the office so i needed to...
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by PogoStick · Published June 14, 2013 · Last modified February 4, 2014
For someone who is quite open sexually I’ve always found phone sex a little awkward. In the past year I’ve dabbled in it more times than ever before and feel I’m getting a little...