An Orgasm You Really, Really Need To Experience

An old partner once said to me the purpose of sex wasn’t to have an orgasm, it was simply to enjoy one another’s bodies.

Well, I say, screw that!

Yes I’m all for exploring my partner’s body and vice versa, sex without an orgasm on both sides is like a really naughty mud cake without the creamy ganache icing. Nice, but hardly worth writing home about.

And I’m going to assume you’re in agreement, which is probably why you landed here, reading this article. Because what’s even better than a ganache-covered mud cake, is one served with extra whipped cream and multiple helpings of gooey chocolate sauce. So if you prefer your dessert taken to the next level, you should definitely acquaint yourself with some of the other, arguably more exciting, ways of enjoying it…

The Clitoral Orgasm 

The Orgasms You Really, Really Need To ExperienceThe vagina is an amazing thing, and with that the clitoris is the ultimate orgasm tool. Its one and only purpose is to help a woman reach climax. Every woman knows how extra sensitive their clitoris is, thanks to the over 8000 nerve endings it holds under its hood, so it’s no surprise it’s our go-to pleasure button when we masturbate, whether with fingers, or a clitoral vibrator.

But while clitoral stimulation gives mind-blowing orgasms, it can be decidedly more difficult to achieve during penetrative intercourse, because the distance between the vaginal opening and the clit varies so greatly from woman to woman, so it makes sense the amount of clitoral contact while doing the deed can vary as well.

Sex therapist, Sari Cooper, has a strategy for dealing with this predicament, hands on.

Have your partner make big circles with their fingers that include the shaft, labia, and upper part of the clitoral hood,”

The best way to achieve a clitoral orgasm during sex is woman-on-top positions, or to have plenty of foreplay involving fingers, tongues and sex toys. Make sure you clearly communicate with your partner the speed, intensity and pressure that works for you.

The G-spot Orgasm 

The Orgasms You Really, Really Need To ExperienceWhile the easiest orgasm for a woman to have is through the clitoris, over 30 per cent of women claim they can have an even more groundbreaking orgasms from purely penetrative sex. Now this long-debated pleasure zone can be hard to locate, which is why some people doubt it even exists; but if you know where to look you’ll have struck orgasm gold! If you’re having a solo night, explore the front wall of your vagina with your finger until you feel a lightly rippled area that is sort of spongey in texture. Your partner can find it by inserting one or two fingers and making a ‘come hither’ motion to press against it.

A G-spot orgasm is more likely to occur during intercourse the longer the sex lasts, a little on the larger side does actually make a significant difference, according to a study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine. A duration of at least 15 minutes of good old fashioned bumping and grinding that includes multiple positions seems to be the recipe for G-spot orgasm success.

What About The Full body Orgasm 

I know it big headed but sex so good it leaves her whole body quivering for hours afterward isn’t just an urban legend, i can say i have seen it. It’s usually the result of the extremely elusive, but definitely not impossible, whole body orgasm; arguably the best of all forms of climax.

The Orgasms You Really, Really Need To Experience

A full body orgasm is also often referred to as female ejaculation, as it causes most women to ‘squirt’, thanks to its intensity. The best way to achieve one is to reach a meditative level of relaxation and calm during sex, so as to totally give over to the experience (a feat that’s easier said than done for most women). Practicing Tantric Sex, which involves deep focus and breathing techniques used to heighten sexual pleasure during intercourse, is your best chance at having this kind of orgasm. But don’t feel like a failure if you’re unable to score one; it’s pretty much the unicorn of orgasms that a mere lucky handful of women get to experience in the course of their sex lives.

And Then The Multiple orgasms

So multiple orgasms are just the case of achieving a series of orgasms that occur back-to-back throughout sex or play. Now not as easy to achieve as to write, but most likely to occur when multiple forms of stimulation occur. This can include anal sex or anal play done in combo with penetrative vaginal sex and some finger work on the clit, and can be facilitated a lot more easily with the aid of sex toys.

The Orgasms You Really, Really Need To Experience


Jon the nudist

Jon the nudist

Well, my name is Jon the Owner of You Only Wetter a 37-year-old, Poly practicing, Dom with two great kids. I am a happy busy internet geek with a love of all things Google and I love spending time sitting on the sofa watching the latest Dr. Who, Mythbusters or a movie. I am a nudist mostly at home but do like to go down to the beach and bare all or go for a little walk around some hidden woodland really would like to do the whole nudist holiday :)

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