Ways you can start loving your pussy
So doing some research, reading and just analysing the society we live in, I realised women are, from an early age are taught to be ashamed of their genitals. Try reading Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski, in medieval times, anatomists called there pussy the “pudendum” which means “to make ashamed”. You can see this has been embedded in our culture for centuries. No wonder it takes people so much time to actually think, explore and accept their pussies.
Here are some tips on how to love your pussy, keeping in mind that not all women have pussies, and not all pussy owners are female this guide comes from my many years blogging talking to various women about there experience with there bodies, but the same general rules can be applied to anyone!
Learn the names of your parts correctly!
First and foremost, you need to know how to correctly name the different parts of your genitals!
Imagine: you ask your partner to touch your vagina, actually meaning your vulva. How could you be mad at them if they start to finger you inside? Your vagina is only the internal part! Both parties need to learn the appropriate terms.
It’s yours and you have it your way!
Shave or not to shave? That is the question so many people are asking, and this for you only to choose, there are people who like both ways see these subreddits HairyPussy or ShavedPussy. Not shaving doesn’t make you a hippie, it is not dirty, same as shaving doesn’t make you a “bad feminist”.
What actually makes you a bad feminist, or let’s just say it, a bad human, is to shame people for what they choose to do with their bodies. Yes, being accepting of others genitals is the key to accepting your own too! And stop comparing, your genitals are normal because they are different.
Grab a mirror and just look at it!
With these first two skills mastered, you can now place yourself in front of a mirror, open your legs and start analysing and find the different parts you now know by heart.
Spread your lips, check out your clitoris. Now, this may seem odd but it is so important because you need to be comfortable looking at your pussy before you can fully enjoy a partner looking at it and pleasuring you!
Last, but not least!
Once you are comfortable with the above, it is time to push yourself! I find that filming yourself naked, happily showing your pussy to the camera can be really helpful Nobody has to see it, it is just for you! Being naked around more try at home, upgrade to a beach just begin to be happy with you.
